Young, lesbian, black seeking... We learn to love because we practice with each other, on ourselves, in all kinds of relationships. The stars of our time, like Beyoncé and Jay-Z, supposedly model for us how to do this, and we enjoy watching them fail. In the process, we repeat the patterns of intimacy and pain that many of us experienced growing up in a racist and heteropatriarchal environment. What we tend to forget: Relationship is negotiable and love is not a finite resource.
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